[they accidentally hit send on that midway through the sentence, so preoccupied are they with trying to get the words right. crap.]
So at first, she wasn't going to go at all. Another mutual friend of ours convinced her that it would require a +1, so she decided not to come. Then I think other people, myself included, managed to convince her that the +1 wasn't necessary... But she still ended up making plans with someone when I wasn't looking. And because I want her to be able to make choices on her own, I just didn't push back on it.
[as they write it out like this, they feel... almost stupid.]
I don't even think it was supposed to be a date. I think they were just... business partners together or something. I'm an idiot.
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[they accidentally hit send on that midway through the sentence, so preoccupied are they with trying to get the words right. crap.]
So at first, she wasn't going to go at all.
Another mutual friend of ours convinced her that it would require a +1, so she decided not to come.
Then I think other people, myself included, managed to convince her that the +1 wasn't necessary...
But she still ended up making plans with someone when I wasn't looking. And because I want her to be able to make choices on her own, I just didn't push back on it.
[as they write it out like this, they feel... almost stupid.]
I don't even think it was supposed to be a date. I think they were just... business partners together or something.
I'm an idiot.